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when baby fever meets baby never: how to handle the ultimate relationship deal-breaker
relationships are tricky enough without throwing babies into the mix. it’s a whole new level of complicated when one person wants to hear the pitter-patter of tiny feet, and the other is more into the sound of silence. as someone who has friends stuck in this exact dilemma, i feel like it’s my duty…
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dear parents, why my childfree life doesn’t mean i hate yours
i know what you’re thinking: why is a childfree person writing a letter to us? isn’t this just going to be another rant about how awful parenthood is? well, let me stop you right there. this is not about bashing your choices or lifestyle. in fact, i have immense respect for you and what…
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why i don’t need kids to feel complete: a love letter to my free time
childfree by choice. it’s a phrase that raises eyebrows, sparks debates, and sometimes invites judgment. but here’s the thing: i’ve never been one to follow the crowd. ever since i was a kid, the idea of having kids just never clicked. i’ve heard the whispers and side-eyes, felt the pressure from family and friends,…
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society’s obsession with parenthood is toxic: let’s talk about it
we live in a world where the expectation to have kids is almost as ingrained as the need to breathe. it’s like there’s this unwritten rule: grow up, get married, have kids, and then you’re truly living. but here’s a hot take – this obsession with parenthood is not only outdated but also downright…
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the myth of ‘you’ll change your mind’: why some of us never do
society loves a good myth, doesn’t it? one of the biggest ones out there is the idea that anyone who chooses not to have kids will eventually “change their mind.” it’s a narrative we’ve heard a thousand times, from family gatherings to casual conversations with strangers. it’s rooted in the belief that parenthood is…
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not your baby factory: owning my choice to be childfree
let’s face it: being childfree is a radical act of rebellion in a world obsessed with procreation. society loves to shove its baby-centric narrative down our throats, making it seem like motherhood is the ultimate badge of honor for women. but what if it isn’t? what if choosing not to have children is just…
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stop asking about my biological clock: it’s none of your business
let’s get one thing straight right off the bat: my biological clock is none of your business. i’m tired of the intrusive, well-meaning, but ultimately patronizing questions about my reproductive choices. if you’re still stuck in the past where a woman’s worth is tied to her ability to procreate, it’s time to wake up…
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the silent struggles of my parent friends: why i’m glad it’s not my problem
being childfree by choice often feels like swimming against the tide, especially when your friends are constantly juggling the demands of parenthood. kids are a lot of work, and sometimes, the silent struggles parents face make me grateful for my decision to remain childfree. i’m not saying that parenting is a mistake, but damn,…
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kids are not the future: why our generation needs to rethink procreation
let’s get real. the pressure to have kids is overwhelming, yet, we need to question if it’s truly the only path to a meaningful life. it’s time to challenge the deeply ingrained notion that having children is the ultimate goal. in this blog, i’ll lay out why opting out of parenthood can be a…
